As a young career professional and graduate student, there are several factors that act as a support for me. Since I spend most of my time at work, my co-workers and staff are a huge support in my life. We have a very positive work dynamic which makes my job easy and enjoyable. Another huge support in my life are the kids I work with. They are all aware of the educational journey I am on and they are always eager to know how I am doing. My fiance is probably my greatest support system. He appreciates my career and understands my hectic work schedule. My local fitness center supports me as well. It is where I go every evening to relieve stress and keeps me sane. Lastly, my colleagues who are on the education journey with me also support me in ways that may be unknown or less obvious. I always look forward to logging into class and reading what my classmates have posted. They have provided me with a very positive experience so far. The main characteristic that all my supports have in common is that they all support me and my goals in one way or another. These factors help keep me focused and grounded and really make me appreciate life. I cannot imagine not having these supports in my life because they are all things that I look forward to and make me so happy. I certainly would not be the person I am today without them.
Although I am speaking honestly, and I do not intend to offend anyone, the challenge I chose to imagine was what my life would be like if I had a child or children. Clearly, I am in the business of children and youth and there is nothing that I find more satisfying than impacting the life of a child. However, not having children of my own is a choice I have made for several reasons. While many view having a child as a blessing (and I'm sure it is), I cannot help but think about all of the challenges that come along with raising a child. The financial stresses, choosing between childcare or putting my career on hold, and finding time for school and other things are just a few of the worries that come to mind. Where I am at now in my life, I would need a much different support system. Of course my fiance would still be included in my list of supports, however, I feel like everything else would change. I would find support in other things, but would these things make me as happy as I am now? Having my own children is not something that is completely off my list, but I think waiting is the best option for me. I can also imagine that when you have a child of your own, all of the other worries disappear and you just make things work.
